2. Love the people I love in better, kinder, and more abundant ways. We all have days where we say things we do not mean. Tempers flare, frustrations arise, sadness falls. These things are inevitable. However, the moments that follow these things are the best opportunities to show love when it would be way easier not to. This means I need to check my envy, swallow my pride, say I am sorry, admit I am wrong, and try to show a little more grace.
3. Be unashamedly enthusiastic about the things I adore. Dachshunds and John Roderick, Doctor Who and books of all kinds, creative reuse and gluten free cooking, good music and even better movies, live performances by musicians and comedians, and all things nerdtastic. These are just some of the things I love. It is ok if you do not love them, we all have our preferences. But I do love these things, and will continue to fill my life (and probably my conversations) with them. I respect the things you enjoy, even if they are different from mine. I hope you can do the same, because I am never going to stop loving them.
4. Work harder. This one applies to all aspects of my life. Work harder to love myself. Work harder to make my home the way I want it. Work harder to establish myself at my new job. Work harder to be healthy in mind, body, and spirit. Work harder to care less about other people's expectations and opinions of me. Work harder to have high expectations and opinions of myself. Work toward establishing some balance in my life.
5. Write more, yet blog less. This might seem antithetical but really it is not. I have been sort of slacking on my blogs lately, and I think it is, in part, because I need to move on to a new form of writing. So, in the year to come, I will be backing off from blogging (though not leaving altogether), and reducing the number of reviews I do. Instead, I will be trying to work on my own personal writing. I have too many people encouraging me at this point to not at least try.
6. Stop fearing failure. My whole life, my biggest fear has been failure. This fear of failure has caused me to walk away from opportunities, to flee trying new things, and to avoid risks at all costs. I cannot fail at something if I never attempt it you see. But by adopting that strategy, I have missed out on some amazing opportunities. So, I hereby give myself permission to fail. In fact, I command myself to fail at something this year. That way, even if I succeed at everything, I will fail at that commandment. Because I must stop allowing a fear of failure to prevent me from living life to the fullest. How can I fully appreciate my successes if I never have any failures?
So there you have it. My New Year's Resolutions for 2014.
It's going to be a happy new year.